223B. Protecting Women From SA is not "Virtue Signalling"
Women are calling on men to protect them from SA. But women don't appreciate the risk that Good Samaritans accept. It's harmful to women's safety when GS's are shamed for doing so.
My followers on my substack know that I’ve been SA’d (not spelling it out to allow this to be algorithm friendly) throughout my life by men and women in my childhood (starting at age 7) and also in adulthood (mostly by women). What I don’t talk about as much is that when I was 2 years old my father tried to kill my mother in their bedroom. Brutally. My sister, who is 7 years older than me, didn’t know what to do. So she shoved me (2 years old) into the room to distract my father.
It worked, and my mother bolted, running naked and bloody down the halls of UCLA’s Married Student Housing. My parents don’t ever talk about it. All I know is what my sister has told me. My father would become a criminally convicted and institutionalized violent sociopath.
In my case, my initial development was slowed, but I would emerge from my cocoon to be intensely motivated to protect women and children. I also happened to develop extraordinary “autistic” talents that aren’t supposed to exist. A modern, but sad, super hero origin. I would go on to position myself as a consumer and civil rights activist, but especially in regards to protecting children. It was because of this that the ICPEN asked me to testify against Disney at the Panama summit in 2013. Everyone knew I was ending my career, but they thanked me for my sacrifice.
My readers and the community have noticed I’ve been speaking out for men also recently. That’s because I get the feeling they have become the underdogs in society and need some support. I’ve detected an intense proliferation of misandrist posting on LinkedIn, which is is harmful to all genders. In my next paper, I will explain why misandry makes the world more dangerous for women. A recent research poll in the UK confirmed my suspicions with misandry rates in the younger generations almost 4 times as high as misogyny rates. This is unprecedented in human history. There are no systems in any society designed to deal with this. The concept of women being dangerous upends the way we see the world.
I struggle with this just like everyone else. Unlike all the people complaining and pointing fingers, I’m doing something to solve the problem. In addition to studying the problem and writing papers, I wade into debates on LI. There I am immediately attacked by misandrists because they see me as male bodied (which I am) despite being gender non binary and asexual. I’m almost a living android that is hyper rational and egoless. Attacking me is about as useful as attacking your browser AI. It does still trigger me a bit though because I have a lot of SA trauma that I manage very well, but being attacked by 100 misandrists in one day is still stressful.
What triggered these attacks was my recounting that when I did exactly what these people (mostly women) are advocating for (men protecting women) at the largest California US Census office in 2010, not a single man or women stepped forward to back me up. I initiated a Federal Civil Rights complaint against the Census. I suspected that women were being SA’d by the director but I had no direct evidence. My sociopath radar, which is highly developed for obvious reasons, was going berserk. So I fabricated creatively argued a case for demographic hiring discrimination. As an economist and civil rights activist, I know how to do this in a way the government can’t ignore. Of course, if I was found to be wrong, I would have been screwed. It was a big gamble.
When the lead investigator landed with her team, she was very pissed at me as expected. But I could also tell she was an Empath (handy in her role as Inquisitor) so I knew she would root out any kinetic sociopathic activities. What I mentioned in my LI comment was that during this process, not a single victim came forward to support me, themselves, or other women. I pointed out that if women want men to self sacrifice for them, they should make some effort to support those men. The misandrists didn’t like this. They said SA was a man only problem and should be solved entirely by men.
That’s not how reality works. The largest problems can only be solved through intense teamwork, a lesson they would know if any of these women had been involved in high level team sports or even military participation.
One of these misandrists, throwing around a lot of Gender Supremacy language, told me that by sharing my story, I was virtue signalling, and that this just made me a bigger asshole.
Now, this is a bit of projection. Whistle blowers who testify against very powerful organisations, like the USA federal government, place themselves under great personal threat. I realize men and women don’t want to step up to help others when it could place a target on themselves. That’s fair. But then demonizing the one in a million unicorn who will self sacrifice in such situations is not making the world safer for anyone.
The one good thing that came out of this is the trauma caused me to remember a repressed memory, that was repressed for good reason. I’m bringing it up now because the debate I was wading into was about husbands drugging their wives so that they could SA them while unconscious. And the memory was about the last time this happened.
In 1995 in Palm Desert, California
One of the involved parties is still alive and is on LI so I will use no names. He actually lists the clinic in his employment history. The clinic where this happened isn’t there anymore, but there is still a Yelp mention of it:
https://www.yelp.com/biz/southwest-pain-control-and-sports-therapy-palm-desert?dd_referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2F
If I end up dead, it wasn’t suicide.
The owner of that building was an anaesthesiologist. And a predator. I was one of his employees, doing physical therapy in the facility. This doctor was one of the most powerful people in Coachella Valley (yes, where Coachella Fest is held). He ejaculated on one of my patients while she was anaesthetized for an epidural. Sound familiar?
She saved the clothing with the DNA on it. Smart lady.
Meanwhile Dr. Gas (not real name) went over to a very pretty co-worker’s house. I actually liked her a lot, and I don’t like many people in that way. She was a single mother. He offered to help her financially. Then he brutally SA’d her (non consensual) in her house. Fully SA’d.
A lot of powerful and highly respected medical professionals worked in that clinic. Assets and reputations on the order of $100+M USD were at risk. These women came to me, knowing I was the right person to ask for help. They needed someone to testify against the clinic, and everyone else was too afraid. I had enough evidence to seal the deal because my immediate boss, one of the top Physical Therapists in the nation, tried to convince me that DNA gal was a nymphomaniac and that I shouldn’t believe anything she says.
I have exceptional empathy, and this gal was not giving off those kinds of vibes. But this implicated both him and Dr. Gas in a coverup.
My boss kept warning me to stand down, for my own good. I refused. Dr. Gas would lose his medical license and the victims got paid well. Dr. Gas convinced the police officer husband of one of my patients to falsely testify against me. I guess she got free treatment. He convinced my own lawyer, who was running for Mayor, to sabotage a different case where I had been hit by a DUI driver. The office manager would later warn me that my lawyer had secretly met with Dr. Gas at the clinic. The clinic released doctored medical records to both sides of my case to ruin me. This is, of course, very illegal.
A very large horsepower-modified pickup came up behind me on a bridge on my way to my teaching job, on my motorcycle. I could hear the driver floor it behind me, it sounded like a drag racer. The driver smashed me up against the guard rail, with a 20M drop below onto the very busy freeway. I managed to maneuver just enough that I didn’t go over the rail, but my bike and left arm were totally smashed. I picked up my BMW with one hand and chased the pickup to get his license plate. I then went directly to the police station, bloody and broken.
They confirmed all elements of the case, and refused to prosecute.
I lost everything but my life to do exactly what women are flooding LinkedIn right now, asking men to do for them to protect them from an army of Dr. Gases. I was permanently disabled and ruined financially. Someone killed my beloved cat. I won’t even get into the psychological aspects.
But I did it again in 2010 to protect my lady co-workers at the USA census office. And again, no one backed me up.
I have no words for the woman that told me I was virtue signalling, or for the dozens of women that liked her comment. I am beyond words.
For the rest of the people, both the misandrists and the regular people who are just scared, please consider what you are asking of men. If the victims themselves are too afraid to defend themselves or report to the police, don’t you think it might be risky for a man to get involved that would be safe if he didn’t? The world is filled with sheep, running from wolves.
My boss at Southwest, who tried to warn me to stop helping the SA victims at the clinic, a year after he confided in me. I asked him why he did it. He said “I was protecting my family”.
How noble.
All of this was covered up, even by the medical board that took the exceptional step of revoking Dr. Gas’s medical license. All of you blaming everyone except yourselves…
You will not win. Not until everyone is willing to accept risk and work as a team to fight these powerful people. Sociopaths don’t mess around. If you get in their way, it’s you or them, and they don’t hesitate. They have no reason to. If you stay out of their way, most of the time you are invisible to them. It would be so easy to look the other way.
They might seem like completely upstanding people, to everyone except the Empaths who can smell them out. But Empaths bleed just like you do. If you don’t protect your Empaths, you will lose them. Then there are no unicorns or superheroes to save the day. You are defenceless and this will just happen forever, everywhere.